I don't understand.....

What I don't understand is how someone can blame ME for Adam trying to commit sucide! And then he has the balls to talk crap about me to other family members and say rude mean things about me in front of my face, and of couse he doens't have the fuckin balls to talk to me and tell me that he blames me for this! And then when asked if he could just be nice to me for the sake of Aaron he said "NO" ..... so why in the hell should I be nice to him then? Any why in the hell should I allow my son be around this man EVER!!!!!! He says if I wasn't so lazy and bossy Adam would of never tried to kill himself....WTF does that have to do with Adam having issues with porn and not knowing what he wants in life? And for him to judge me that way when he doesn't even live with us or for that fact live near us!!!!! He has no clue what goes on in our house on a daily basis....but for him to hate me the way he does is just stupid...I think he just still wants to be the boss in Adams life and if i'm to bossy then he can't be the main boss anymore and rule over Adam. But what he doesn't know is that in our family there is no main boss....we all have EQUAL say...sure there are still some things that need bosses...like Aaron hes the boss of his toys, i'm the boss over Aaron and Tabitha....but in no way am I the boss of Adam nor him of me...we are EQUAL partners in this marriage, but personally I don't think its anyones else business what goes on in THIS household......so until this person is perfect he shouldn't be casting the first stone at anyone!